Mistakes on First Night முதலிரவில் செய்யும் தவறுகள்

After the wedding, you all get pumped up for the first night. While many couples feel the wedding jitters throughout this time, there are a few who are excited about the first sex with their newly wed partner! Sex on first night increases intimacy, romance, love and affection towards your spouse. Elders, brothers and sisters will eat your mind by giving you ideas and suggestions to throw a good impression on your very first night after the wedding.

However, you must not make few mistakes on your first night. Couples when driven by sex drive tend to make mistakes and this can throw a wrong impression on your spouse. So, it is very important to be careful when you are preparing for your first night after the wedding. Here are few silly mistakes that couples must avoid on their first night.

Sex mistakes to avoid on first night:

Not taking consent: Although you are now legally a couple who can indulge in sexual activities, you need to make sure that you take consent of your spouse before taking any step.

Check comfort levels: You might be ready to pump it inside the well decorated bedroom, but your spouse might require some time to become comfortable. Women especially feel shy and take time to open up with their spouse. Do not force your partner if she is not comfortable in having complete sex with you. All couples must avoid such first night sex mistakes.

Be sober: As it is your first night, you do not need to turn into a porn star. Stay shy and little reserved. This will throw a good impression on your spouse. You might not know, but a lot of men love women who are soft and delicate. You can act like a porn star in the later days!

No unprotected sex: Before the first night, take some guidance if you are not well aware about the world of sex! Many couples make a big mistake on their first night. Do not have unprotected sex. Carry protections so that you do not regret later!

Don't sleep off: Men usually have the habit of going to sleep after having sex. They get tire, but women get romantic after the intercourse. You can sleep after few days once your wife feels comfortable. Till then, make it a habit to wake up for some time and caress her so that your wife doesn't feel being used for sexual needs.

These are few sex mistakes that couples do on their first night.

Sex mythbuster: Touching a woman’s breasts won’t make them bigger

Sex mythbuster: Touching a woman's breasts won't make them bigger

Q: Hi, I am a 24 year old man. I wanted to ask if pressing or sucking on a girl's breasts will make it grow bigger.  My girlfriend is really worried about it and won't let me touch her breasts.

This is one of the most common sex-related myths that people seem to have. While many women find squeezing and pressing boobs arousing, there's absolutely no data to suggest that they can grow bigger with pressing or squeezing.  Normally, when a woman is aroused, there is some blood flow to her breasts which makes them marginally bigger temporarily. This makes it a wonderful erogenous zone that most heterosexual males enjoy fondling.

The breasts can also increase in size if a woman puts on weight, or is pregnant or lactating. Exercising can also improve body posture and make the breasts appear more attractive, but it cannot increase its size. No ointment, oil or cream that claims to do it is legitimate. You should avoid buying any such products. The only way it to actually increase the size is to get breast implants.  

So you can rest assured that pressing or fondling will not increase her breast size. If it was that easy, there would really be no need for an expensive procedure like breast implants. (Read: )

And we should add that if your girlfriend is not comfortable with breast play you should avoid it. A woman has various erogenous zones throughout her body. Maybe for your girlfriend, her breasts aren't one of them. (Read: )