Saturday, November 2, 2013

How can I extend my sex time and last longer in bed?

How can I extend my sex time and last longer in bed?

Q: I cannot last for more than a little while in bed. I ejaculate in 2-3 minutes and my wife is not fully satisfied and this is causing tension between us. I am very depressed about this. Please give me some tips to last longer. Ans: One of the biggest misconceptions people have about sex is that it has to go on for an hour as shown in porn movies. These films are fabricated and are often performed in several cuts. Don't be depressed as you are not the only one facing this problem, most men believe that they should last longer. And fortunately, there are ways with which you can last longer in bed. Proper preparation will lead to greater performance.

You can start by exercising your groin, arms and abdominal muscles. Not only will they provide you with more energy while having sex, they will also improve blood flow in your body which is good for your cardiovascular health. Also even cutting down on the flab can help you last longer. Many-a-time premature ejaculation is caused due to erectile dysfunction, basically your body's compensating for less sex time by ejaculating quickly.

You can also try out these techniques to beat premature ejaculation. (Read: ) 

Consuming alcohol and cigarettes could play spoilsport in a steamy night of passion. These products lead to fatigue and even affect your sex hormone levels causing poorer erections.

You can also try doing Kegel exercises which are meant to give you better erections. Kegels exercises are meant for exercising the muscles of your pelvic region, and can help you gain better control of your bladder as well as improve your sex life. An example of a kegels exercise will be – 'Imagine you are urinating and then try to stop the flow. Repeat this – squeeze, hold, release cycle 10 times, trying to hold for 10 seconds per squeeze.' (Read: )

Lastly, focus more on foreplay and don't directly dive in vaginal intercourse. A woman has several erogenous zones over her body. Indulging in some kissing and fingering can give her an orgasm that she deserves. (Read: )

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Thursday, October 31, 2013

Resistance bands and tubes are they better than weights?

Resistance bands and tubes – are they better than weights?

Earlier used as fitness equipment, resistance bands and tubes are nowadays commonly used by physiotherapists for rehabilitation as well. In some ways they are similar because both of them provide some form of resistance, allow a free range of motion and allow a variable speed of movement. But are they better than weights? Here's what the experts had to say:

Benefits over weights

'There are numerous benefits over weights. They're inexpensive, require virtually no maintenance and one band alone can be used for numerous movements. They can be carried anywhere and one band can be used for many different movements. Also unlike weights, the user is able to control the amount of force being applied very easily by their foot position, body position and movement. Simply repositioning your body while performing the given exercise will add more or less load/stress or assistance,' Hill adds. (Read: )

Versatile and easy to carry around

According to celebrity trainer, , 'Resistance bands and tubes are great because they are versatile and allow you to target muscles you have trouble training with weights and offer great variety. Also thanks to their light weight, they can be taken anywhere.'

Great for rehab

Ace bodybuilder Neil 'Yoda' Hill says that bands and tubes can be used for multiple exercises. He adds, 'They are very effective for injury/rehab phases as the user is able to create a positive load in a given area and also control the pressure/load being applied. Since they are rubberised and flexible, they can be used to perform multiple movements or exercises.'

Help increase co-ordination:

Unlike dumbbells which offer resistance when going against gravity, resistance bands or tubes offer resistance throughout the movement. This makes you stabilize your body better leading to better co-ordination, involving more muscle groups.

Tips to buy and use resistance bands or tubes:

You can buy them at shops having sports and fitness equipment or at many online stores. Buy them in two to three different colours (offering different levels of resistance) so that you can use different ones for various body exercises for targeting different muscle groups.Resistance tubes come with handles which may be slightly uncomfortable. Choose ones with padded handles if  you find them.For certain moves, you might need to attach them to a wall, pole or door with an attachment. Ask the store if they have any.When your body gets used to one level of bands, move on to the next level.Sometimes, if you're not tall enough, the resistance tubes may seem inadequate to offer resistance. In these cases, just make a loop with them on the floor and keep your foot/feet on it. You can adjust the size of the loop based on how much resistance you require.

 

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Mistakes on First Night முதலிரவில் செய்யும் தவறுகள்

After the wedding, you all get pumped up for the first night. While many couples feel the wedding jitters throughout this time, there are a few who are excited about the first sex with their newly wed partner! Sex on first night increases intimacy, romance, love and affection towards your spouse. Elders, brothers and sisters will eat your mind by giving you ideas and suggestions to throw a good impression on your very first night after the wedding.

However, you must not make few mistakes on your first night. Couples when driven by sex drive tend to make mistakes and this can throw a wrong impression on your spouse. So, it is very important to be careful when you are preparing for your first night after the wedding. Here are few silly mistakes that couples must avoid on their first night.

Sex mistakes to avoid on first night:

Not taking consent: Although you are now legally a couple who can indulge in sexual activities, you need to make sure that you take consent of your spouse before taking any step.

Check comfort levels: You might be ready to pump it inside the well decorated bedroom, but your spouse might require some time to become comfortable. Women especially feel shy and take time to open up with their spouse. Do not force your partner if she is not comfortable in having complete sex with you. All couples must avoid such first night sex mistakes.

Be sober: As it is your first night, you do not need to turn into a porn star. Stay shy and little reserved. This will throw a good impression on your spouse. You might not know, but a lot of men love women who are soft and delicate. You can act like a porn star in the later days!

No unprotected sex: Before the first night, take some guidance if you are not well aware about the world of sex! Many couples make a big mistake on their first night. Do not have unprotected sex. Carry protections so that you do not regret later!

Don't sleep off: Men usually have the habit of going to sleep after having sex. They get tire, but women get romantic after the intercourse. You can sleep after few days once your wife feels comfortable. Till then, make it a habit to wake up for some time and caress her so that your wife doesn't feel being used for sexual needs.

These are few sex mistakes that couples do on their first night.

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Sex mythbuster: Touching a woman’s breasts won’t make them bigger

Sex mythbuster: Touching a woman's breasts won't make them bigger

Q: Hi, I am a 24 year old man. I wanted to ask if pressing or sucking on a girl's breasts will make it grow bigger.  My girlfriend is really worried about it and won't let me touch her breasts.

This is one of the most common sex-related myths that people seem to have. While many women find squeezing and pressing boobs arousing, there's absolutely no data to suggest that they can grow bigger with pressing or squeezing.  Normally, when a woman is aroused, there is some blood flow to her breasts which makes them marginally bigger temporarily. This makes it a wonderful erogenous zone that most heterosexual males enjoy fondling.

The breasts can also increase in size if a woman puts on weight, or is pregnant or lactating. Exercising can also improve body posture and make the breasts appear more attractive, but it cannot increase its size. No ointment, oil or cream that claims to do it is legitimate. You should avoid buying any such products. The only way it to actually increase the size is to get breast implants.  

So you can rest assured that pressing or fondling will not increase her breast size. If it was that easy, there would really be no need for an expensive procedure like breast implants. (Read: )

And we should add that if your girlfriend is not comfortable with breast play you should avoid it. A woman has various erogenous zones throughout her body. Maybe for your girlfriend, her breasts aren't one of them. (Read: )

Ten silly sex myths we have heard

Ten silly sex myths we have heard

Our educators and decision-makers seem to believe that teaching children and young adults the realities of sex will result in a widespread moral degradation so sex education in schools is pretty much non-existent. This coupled with other dubious sources of information like peers, porn and films has created a bunch of myths about sex. Here we try to bust some of the most common myths about sex: 

Myth: Anal sex and oral sex are 'safe'

That depends on your definition of safe. While oral and anal sex cannot cause pregnancies (a doubt some readers still have) it can still lead to the transmission of STDs. The risk is particularly high in anal sex and you should always use a condom for it. (Read: )

Myth: Pressing, sucking or fondling a woman's breast will make them bigger

If it was that easy then there would be no need for expensive breast enlargement surgeries. When breasts are fondled, blood flows to them and they are momentarily perkier and bigger. This is a temporary state of affairs and the size of the breast decreases normally when the woman isn't aroused. (Read: )

Myth: Masturbation can lead to blindness, hair on the back of the arm, infertility and a host of other conditions

This has been there since time immemorial. Masturbation can NOT make you weak, it can't make you glow blind, it won't cause hair growth in unwanted places, it won't make you lose hair, it won't make you thin, it won't make your erections weaker and you certainly won't run out of semen or sperm if you masturbate. All the myths about masturbation have come to be because of society's views that everything to do with sexuality including masturbation was a 'bad' thing.  (Read: )

Myth: You can get pregnant by kissing

A myth which does the rounds in the schools thanks to the fact that our politicians have decided sex education is immoral and against our Indian values. It's impossible to get pregnant via kissing. 

Myth: Intercourse should last for hours

Thanks to porn, most young men get disheartened when they don't last beyond 3-4 minutes. That's the worldwide average. We often forget that porn is fabricated, men aren't supposed to last for hours!  (Read: )

Myth: You can have unprotected sex on safe days and not get pregnant

It's incredibly hard to figure out the safe days for sex. Technically speaking, the safe days are Day 1-7 of the period and Day 19 to the start of the next cycle. Like we mentioned, it's incredibly hard to figure out and also we need to remember that many women have irregular periods. Just use a damn condom! (Read: )

Myth: It's easy to tell if a woman's a virgin

Another of our social myths, we believe that unless a woman bleeds during sex i.e. hymen breaks she isn't a virgin! The hymen can break anytime during her childhood through vigorous activities like cycling or even due to female masturbation. An intact hymen is not a sign of virginity! Sadly, society still doesn't seem to believe it and they actually have hymen reconstructive surgery! (Read:)

Myth: Homosexuality is a disease

In 1973, homosexuality was removed from the list of Mental Disorders by the American Psychiatric Association. Why people are gay is still not clear but they just are. It's not a disease or a condition; it's just like being Bengali or Tamil. You're just born gay. It's not a mental illness and there's no choice in the matter.

Myth: Women must orgasm through vaginal sex

Most women do not have orgasms from vaginal intercourse alone and require clitoral stimulation. In fact, there are a variety of different erogenous zones that can cause orgasms – breasts, legs, back, calves, etc. Some even have orgasms through digital penetration of the vagina but don't have it during regular sex.

Only vagina penetration counts as sex

When Bill Clinton was embroiled in the Monica Lewinsky scandal, he had claimed that he was 'not having sex'. Investigations revealed that while their encounters involved a variety of sexually-charged encounters including fellatio, there was no vaginal intercourse. This is an example of how modern society only equates vaginal intercourse with sex. This has hampered society in general and plays a major role in meting out justice for sexual assault. Punishment is often based on penile penetration and other acts are considered less severe. We have to realise that everything falls under the ambit of sex, from kissing to penetration. In fact, the proper scientific term for all non-intercourse sexual activities is outercourse. (Read: )

We hope we've cleared some of the sex doubts you've been harbouring since childhood. Do write to us if you have any more queries. 

Cook Together For Better Sex!

You must have heard of the phrase that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. But it is not necessary that you have to go through the process of cooking alone to make way to his heart. Two of you together can spice up the food with a combination of mind blowing sex in the kitchen!

A man's basic necessity revolves around only two things, food and sex. So, when you mix up these two things, he will do anything you want him to. You do not have to slog in the kitchen to find the way to your man's heart. Just make the cooking funnier and sexier. Seduce him into the kitchen and do the cooking together. Not only cooking the meal but also cooking up some steamy and sexy love!

Here is a sexy recipe to steam things up in the kitchen with your man tonight. Have a look:

Dress Provocatively

No, we are not asking you to cook wearing a lingerie. Wear only an apron to let him know that you have no objections in being seduced by him. Or you may wear something subtly provocative where you may show-off your naughty cleavage only to make his mouth water! Suddenly cooking will become sexy and an erotic job rather than a routine and dull one.

Get Him From Behind

There is nothing more sexy than sneaking up behind your man while he is busy putting the seasoning in the soup. Gently place kisses around his neck, press your chest against his back, slip your arms to his waist and then let it go down. He will probably give up on the cooking and grope you from behind.

Sip On The Wine

To build up the mood, get some sensual music and a glass of wine. Give him a few kisses and nib at his neck to get things steamy. Licking fingers and kissing will be a huge turn on for both of you.

Use The Table

You will never forget the experience of having sex on your kitchen table. Clear up the things from your table and make love on it. Then spread out on your dining table and give provocative signals to your partner. He cannot resist the provocation and you will end up having the best sex of your life.

Try these moves in the kitchen tonight and make your man go crazy with pleasure.

Forbidden Places To Have Sex!

Having sex in the bedroom is a usual, and boring thing. If you really want to spice up your sex life then it is time to move out of the bedroom and try out something hot and naughty. Having outdoor sex has its own fun which you cannot imagine unless you have one! So, the next time you plan to have sex, just do it outside the bedroom and see how your guy turns on and goes wild.

Bedroom is preferred for sex because it falls under your comfort zone. But if you want to enjoy some hot and steamy sex, then move out of your comfort zone and explore the wild. Remember, how Eve ate the forbidden fruit? The forbidden fruit is usually where the fun lies. So, do not hesitate to eat the forbidden fruit or to have sex with your partner in the most forbidden places.

Take a look at these forbidden places to have sex:

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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

5 reasons why regular visits to the dentist is a good idea!

You must have often heard that it is very important to visit your dentist for regular check-ups – generally, twice a year. But depending upon how good your oral health is you may need to visit your dentist either more frequently or less often. It could be as frequent as every three months or as less as once a year. But have you ever wondered why you need those regular dental check-ups in the first place? Here’s why.


Prevention is better than cure
Regular dental check-ups can help bring a few lurking signs of impending oral conditions to notice so that preventive measures can be taken. During your regular check-ups your dentist will be able to check for conditions in the mouth that may put you at risk of developing any tooth decay, gum disease, etc. (Read: )

One such risk factor is tartar or calculus (mineralised plaque) which is detrimental for the health of your teeth and gums. It cannot be easily removed even after you follow all the oral hygiene measures like brushing and flossing.Professional scaling or cleaning is the only way these mineralised deposits can be removed. (Read: )

Is sex as good as gymming to lose weight?

Is sex as good as gymming to lose weight?

Need to stay fit and healthy, and have fun at the same time? Have sex. According to a new study conducted by William Masters and Virginia Johnson, having sex is just as effective as going to the gym and is a great way to burn calories. On an average, men burn 4.2 calories, and women burn 3.1 calories for every minute of sex that they have.

For the study, the researchers studied 21 heterosexual couples by attaching an armband called SenseWear which monitored their energy expenditure. They were then asked to perform a 30-minute moderate intensity workout on a treadmill in order to calculate their baseline calorie expenditure.

The study published online in the journal PLOS ONE showed that men spent a total of 101 calories while having sex and 276 calories while on the treadmill, while women spent 69 calories while having sex and 213 calories while on the treadmill.

Health benefits of sex:

1. Makes you happier!

A new research suggests that like salaries, people are generally happier if they keep up with the Joneses and are even happier when they're having more sex. On the other hand, less sex than their peers can make people miserable. ()

2. Relieves stress!

 Sex releases hormones like dopamine and oxytocin, which helps us feel elated. There is no better  way to let off some steam and it actually helps people sleep as well. (Read: )

3. Helps you sleep better

Men ejaculate during orgasm which makes them feel lethargic after the activity. This makes it a great way to tackle insomnia. (Read: )

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Monday, October 28, 2013

Expert diet tips for people suffering from cancer

Expert diet tips for people suffering from cancer

Battling a disease like cancer is not an easy feat. You need to be mentally strong and not lose hope to overcome this illness. While doctors try their best to remove the tumour from your body, you too can make your contribution in making your body healthy by eating the right food. It will not only make your body feel better and heal faster, but will give you mental satisfaction as well to an extent. Fitness and wellness expert Jain shares some tips on fighting cancer with the right diet.

Studies indicate that those who are overweight by 20 kg or more double their risk of getting certain types of cancer. The American Cancer Institute stated that about one-third of all cancers are related to what we eat and another 30 per cent result from smoking. Your diet plays a vital role in your well-being.

Eat a balanced diet

The body needs nutrients from various food groups. The food you consume should include calories from proteins, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins and minerals. No one food group is more important than another – for good health you need them all. Go easy on fats, oils and sweets so that your weight is in-check.

The total calorie consumption during the recuperation of cancer may need to be increased to prevent break down of tissues.The body requires additional protein for tissue regeneration and healing.Dietary supplements often need to be included, as advised by the doctor.Spicy food is best avoided as it can cause nausea and stomach discomfort.Dryness of the mouth is common during cancer treatment therefore soft, bland food is better tolerated.Small meals, eaten frequently (every 2 -3 hours) are advised, rather than large meals.Instead of frying; you can grill, roast, bake, stir-fry or blanch the food. Limit fat intake to less than 20 per cent of total calories.Keep yourself well hydrated. This helps the kidneys to rid the body of toxins. Drink two to three litres of water daily.To preserve nutrients, eat freshly cooked food, rather than frozen or packaged foods.Fibre adds bulk to the food we eat and is an important source of roughage. Choose high-fibre foods such as multigrain, whole-wheat bread or brown rice.Fruits and vegetables are fibre-rich foods that contain essential nutrients such as vitamins A and C, folate, iron, magnesium, potassium, and selenium. Eat three to five servings of fresh fruits and salad each day. Aim for a variety and pick your vegetables and fruits across the rainbow spectrum. It is a myth that one has to stop eating non-veg food if they have cancer. Modest amounts of meat and dairy products are advised.

Quit smoking

Tobacco use not only causes cancer but it also interferes with cancer treatment and leads to poorer outcomes. Tobacco use has been linked to lung, head and neck cancers. (Read: )

Limit alcohol consumption

Do you know that one gram of alcohol equals 7 calories? Drinking too much will pile on pounds and also can interfere with your ongoing treatment. It is best to consult your doctor on the prescribed limit of alcohol intake depending on your condition. 

Keep your mind and body calm

While it is important to eat right during your treatment, it is also important to keep your mind relaxed and at peace. It can be a trying time for you and your family but certain tips can help you keep your cool.

Try going for a massage once a fortnight or month. It will help release muscular tension and relax you. Meditate regularly. Meditation helps calm the body and mind bringing them into a better state of balance.Get enough sleep. A good night's sleep reduces overall fatigue, anxiety and stress.Breathe deep. Shut your eyes, and take 5 slow, calming breaths. Every time you inhale focus on breathing in calmness, and when you exhale – breathe out all mental fatigue.Cultivate a hobby. It could be listening to music, playing the piano…  do something every day that you enjoy.

While these are general guidelines that all cancer patients can follow, it is essential to discuss them once with your consulting doctor on any specific restrictions or additions to this routine based on your condition. (Read: )

Namita Jain has carved a niche for herself in the fitness and wellness space with her brand 'Jaldi Fit' and company 'Live Active'. Her career spans over 25 years and her unmatched list of qualifications let her stay ahead of the curve. She has authored several books on health and fitness and contributed articles for top publications as well. She conducts classes in aerobics, yoga, Pilates, step workout and interval training. She also features as a nutritionist on the TV channel Food Food in their health cookery programme. Namita was the nutrition partner for Miss Femina India 2012. For more information on her wellness programmes, visit her websites: www.liveactive.com and www.jaldifit.com

Hot Blow Job Tips To Turn Him On

Let's face it, all men love oral sex. Blow job is the best sexual sensation a man ever experiences. Once you are down there, your man experiences a bliss which is difficult to express in words. So, if you want to impress your man and bring him down to his knees with pleasure, then you need to learn the right techniques to make him go bonkers.

Giving a blow job is not difficult. The difference is that while some women are too adept at administering it, most of the women really mess it up. While pecking at his cheeks, neck and ears can stimulate him to a great extent, blow job can put your man in a state of euphoria. There are notions about blow job being a dirty or sinful act. So, to start with the lessons, you should first get these notions out of your mind. Blow job is an activity which can spice up your sexual relationship with your partner and can contribute to the pleasure of both you and your partner.

Once you get the notions out of your mind, your task becomes much more easy. So, check out these hot blow job tips which will definitely turn him on:

The eye contact: Once you gear up for the oral sex, your man will be pretty eager to get a blow job from you. Make sure that you make an eye contact once in while with a naughty gleam in your eye. He will be turned on more with that look.

A helping hand: Gently hold the base of his penis and run your finger from the base to the tip, making an O-shape as you move upwards. This will tickle his G-spot and increase the blood circulation in his penis, making it harder.

Take it in: Gently lick the tip of his penis with your tongue and then take it in your mouth. Don't just take in and bring out. Use your tongue to make the swirling sensation. You can also gently massage his testicles and then lick them with your tongue.

Get the rhythm on: Use your hands to give him a hand job. Get his shaft in the hand and give it an up and down jerk. Then increase the speed of your jerk and then suddenly go slow. Move down to his balls and while tickling them with your fingers, give him a good blow job.

Take it deep: As you get used to getting his penis in your mouth, try taking it in completely. Getting it deep down your throat gives your man immense pleasure. If you feel awkward by the idea, try practicing this on a peeled banana first and then do it on your man.

Once you try all these tips on your man, he will have an incredibly enjoyable orgasm. When he starts to orgasm make sure you do not put too much pressure on his penis. Slowly take your hands off and let him enjoy the bliss.

Sunday, October 27, 2013

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Sex addiction - The curse of a raging libido

The curse of a raging libido

'I would repeatedly cheat on my wives, get caught and then reconcile. And cheat again. I spent lakhs on escort services. Now all I have is remorse'

In the 40 minutes that I spend with Jasvir*, he does not look at me once. As we sit down, he readjusts his chair so that the swimsuit-clad woman in the pool behind us does not distract him. 'Don't mind me. When you're recovering, you need abstinence,' he tells me. 

Jasvir is a recovering sex addict who heads a sexoholics support group in Delhi — The Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA). A medical practitioner, his addiction led to depression and he was soon hooked to sleeping pills. He battled the addiction for over a decade before seeking help. 'I would buy dozens of porn magazines every week and spend obsessively on the women I slept with,' confides Jasvir.

Ironically, he had no relationship with his wife. Today, he helps young men battle the disorder. 

So what exactly constitutes sex addition. Is it compulsive masturbation? Or a nagging porn habit you've nursed since the class 7? Or does seven-eight orgasms per day make you an addict? 'Addiction cannot be linked to numbers. If an individual's sexual desire is uncontrolled, his needs unquenched, and behaviour compulsive, that's sex addiction,' says sexologist Prakash Kothari, who set up Asia's first department of sexology at KEM Hospital in Mumbai. (Read: )

It was only after the breakdown of his third marriage that 42-year-old Sudhir* realised that what he was staring into was a problem. 'I would repeatedly cheat on my wives, get caught and then reconcile. And, cheat again. I spent lakhs on escort services. Now all I have is remorse,' he reveals in a telephonic conversation. He has been sober for over two years now and continues to take professional help.        

'There are two prominent theories about sex addiction. One is that addiction is a biochemical reaction. The other theory attributes addiction to psychodynamic causes. Usually children of dysfunctional families with a negative attitude to sex develop a sense of low self-esteem, that can only be redeemed by sex or masturbation,' explains prominent Chennai sexologist Dr Narayana Reddy. 'Most cases have a strong psychological background. But, in some, where the individual has a ancestral history of mental illness, genetic resurgence plays a part,' explains Kothari. 

Sociologist Vivek Kumar, who teaches at JNU, believes that the disorder is largely a consequence of social actions. 'Usually, such behaviour patterns are linked with the person's history. There's always a trigger when you investigate his sociological background,' says Kumar. 

For all the prurient interest the disorder drums up, sex addiction — or 'satyriasus', the medical term for male sex addicts, and 'nymphomania' for female sex addicts — does not find mention in the American Psychiatry Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the go-to journal for mental health practitioners.

The term, 'sex addiction' was first coined by Patrick Carnes in 1983 in his book Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction. It has come a long way in popular imagination with celebrities like Bill Clinton and Tiger Woods now a part of dinner time conversations. Films such as Steve McQueen's Shame, with a powerful performance by Michael Fassbender as a man grappling with his addiction, Clark Gregg's Choke adapted from Chuck Palahniuk's novel, among others have all helped to turn the spotlight on sex addiction.

Recovery route

For the longest time, the battle was with myself. I was in denial,' says Jasvir. 'I spent lakhs on my treatment abroad. I wonder how many addicts can afford that. Many people here don't even know it is a disorder.'  In India there's also the stigma attached that hampers identification. 'But the numbers are increasing. 'A decade ago, I would get barely five to six cases a month. These days, it is anywhere between 15 and 20 cases,' says Kothari.  'When we started SAA, (part of the SAA in the US), there were only two members. Now, with more people talking about it, it has risen to seven,' says Jasvir.

SAA caters only to men. This reporter was barred from attending an SAA meet on the plea that since it was felt that all SAA being men, the presence of a female would disrupt proceedings. 'Maybe it is the nature of the condition, but paraphilia is seen in males mostly. I've had only five-six women walk up to me to discuss the problem,' says Reddy.

Addiction is often mistaken for criminal behavior. Kothari distinguishes between the two. 'Sex addiction is closely related to Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and disorders like schizophrenia. Only a skilled psychiatrist can differentiate between the two. People also link sexual crimes to the disorder. Addiction is compulsive and not easily treatable. But an offender acts at the spur of the moment.'

Some psychiatric therapies found to work with sex addicts include the Cognitive Behaviour Therapy which employs goal-setting to recover, Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy which focuses on emotional well-being, and the Robert Carkuff Model, which includes a combination of the above. 'Since it is closely linked to OCD, the same medication works sometimes. But broadly, apart from psychotherapy, therapists also use anti-androgens to bring down hormone levels to pre-puberty levels. But this usually leaves side-effects and needs to be handled carefully,' says Reddy. 

But as any sex addict will tell you, the road to recovery is long and slippery.

*name changed 

Tell tale signs

An addict has an insatiable appetite for sex, and craves for it almost immediately after an orgasm An addict suffers from guilt and remorse after the act For an addict, obligations and responsibilities are not as important as pleasuring themselvesLack of sleep is a common symptomAn addict also feels despair, depression and shameThe need for sex escalates to desperation, and the addiction spirals out of control despite adverse consequences Addicts suffer from irritability and have severe mood-swingsThere is a feeling of disorientation and lack of energy

Behind closed doors of an SAA meeting

Cleaning out the closet can sometimes bring a lot of relief. Especially when the skeletons in your cupboard are sexual demons. The anonymous meet is a motley group of individuals grappling with the addiction.

The  Sex Addicts Anonymous initially borrowed the 12-step programme from the alcoholic anonymous recovery programme. The initiation is invariably the recognition of the problem; in accepting that one is addicted to sex. The programme then proceeds to seek spiritual guidance through prayers and then making amends to people one might have hurt because of the addiction.

The meet starts with the chair of the meeting reading out the 12-step recovery programme to attending addicts, after which attendees are encouraged to seek spiritual help by praying. The chair then welcomes newcomers into their fold. After a round of hugs and kisses, the evening gives ways for a recollection of personal histories.

It is in this retelling that minds are bared, and brotherhoods forged. Porn addiction, compulsive masturbation, compulsive sexual encounters, adultery, depression, drug addictions, broken relationships, regrets, shame, guilt — are the usual issues that are spoken about.  Shared histories make for a lot of comfort.

This is followed by another prayer session and a resolve to abstain. Before the meet wraps up, attendees decide on the timings for the next meet.

When we started SAA (part of the SAA in the US), there were only two members. Now, with more people talking about it, it has risen to seven.

Celebrities battling addiction

Michael Douglas

One of the first to check into rehab for his addiction in 1990, Douglas sought professional help right after his marriage to Diandra Luker hit troubled waters. Luker accused him of being a serial adulterer. He later redeemed himself with his marriage to Catherine Zeta-Jones.

Russell Brand

Infamous for his womanising ways, funnyman Russell Brand checked into sex rehab in 2005, where the now self-styled addiction expert hated everything from his bed to the food. He was clean for a while but his much-publicised marraige to Katy Perry ended after adultery accusations.

David Duchovny

Duchovny took his Calinifornication's Hank Moody act a bit too seriously when he checked into rehab in 2008, after having denied it for years. He claimed to have sought help when his marriage to Tea Leoni hit rockbottom after she found out.

Tiger Woods

Woods is arguably the most famous celebrity sex addict, after a raging addiction bulldozed a glorious career and broke his marriage. He apologised to his fans and quickly went into rehab in 2009. 

How does one know if he/she is a sex addict?

Dr Vijayasarathi Ramanathan, Sexual Health Physician and Medical Sex Therapist, throws some light on the topic. 

Is sex addiction a modern phenomenon?

Not quite. Terms like nymphomania or satyriasis, terms to describe sex addiction in women and men respectively have been around since ancient times. It's because of our increased connectivity now that we often hear about more and more cases of sex addiction or sex-related behaviour.  

How much is too much? 

The problem of addiction can be aptly described using a popular Tamil proverb which when translated means, ' An elixir which generally does good to us by improving health or protecting problems becomes a poison when it is taken more than what is required'.

 The key issue is examining how much is too much. When we are prescribed medicines, we are usually prescribed how much we should take.  But, for behaviours of addictive nature, it is very hard to draw a line between what is acceptable and what is not as it varies from person to person, society to society, culture to culture, time to time and so on. It could also rely on other factors such as the individuals, medical professionals, research evidence, society, religion etc. (Read: )

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Fat to fit: Mega guide for losing weight the right way

Fat to fit: Mega guide for losing weight the right way

October 26 is World Obesity Day.

Today, lifestyle diseases are on the rise due to sedentary behaviour and obesity is without a doubt a global pandemic. It is a condition when a person weighs too much more than the standard weight according to his age and height. Usually, a person with a Body Mass Index (BMI) higher than 30 falls under the obese category. Obesity is not just restricted to developed nations. Though the cases of malnutrition maybe more in rural India, there is an alarming number of obesity cases in urban India with children too joining the ranks of being obese.

This problem needs to be addressed at the earliest as obesity can lead to a plethora of other serious conditions including heart disease, diabetes, hypertension, and even cancer. Obesity is on a rise globally and here are some facts that prove it.

According to a survey conducted by Fitho – an online weight loss diet plan service company – almost half (46%) of urban Indians are obese with the risk age ranging between 28-38 years.Globally, an estimated 10% of schoolchildren, between 5 and 17 years of age, are overweight or obese.Studies show that in India, nearly 15 to 20% of children are overweight and 30% are in the risk of falling in this category.Research shows that obesity kills around 2.8 million people every year.

The rise of obesity

Reasons for obesity

The prime reason is eating unhealthy foods which add more calories and provide less or no nutrition at all to our bodies. A regular intake of such foods plays havoc with our system depositing excess fat which adds weight and pushes us towards being obese. 

Another factor is the lack of physical activity. Due to changes in lifestyle, people are plonked in front of their TVs or laptops for hours on end without getting any exercise which leads to weight gain and other health problems. Over time, this combined with unhealthy eating leads to obesity.

What obesity does to your body

Being obese leads to various serious ailments which make it more difficult to go about one's daily tasks. Some of these are:

Tips to lose weight

In order to beat obesity, one needs to follow a balanced diet and make lifestyle changes. What you eat plays a major role in controlling your weight and also providing nutrition to your body. Also, engaging in physical activity is important to keep oneself fit. Here's help:

Diet
Weight loss diet by expert dietician5 diseases you can prevent with weight lossFad is bad: Say no to diets which promise speedy weight loss6 diet tips to lose belly fatWeight gain due to long working hours. What should I do?Revealed- 10 secrets of people who lose weight easilyTasty recipes for weight lossWhat is the right way to lose weight?Tips to lose weight before your weddingLook younger and lose weight naturallyAlmond s- How they can help you lose weight

Exercise

Fun ways to exercise and lose weightLose belly fat with exercises by Hrithik's trainer Kris GethinCan weight training help you lose weight?Walking for weight lossGet fit at your workplace with these expert recommended exercises and tipsDance away the weight with ZumbaWhy is high intensity interval training better (HIIT) for weight loss?4 sexy and unusual ways to lose weight

Also along with diet and exercise, for people whose obesity has become morbid, they can opt for procedures like bariatric (weight loss surgery), though we should assure that all the quick-fix weight loss products you see ads for every day are mostly shams. 

Bariatric surgery: Does it help you lose weight? (Expert Speak)Bariatric surgery: Nothing cosmetic about itOpting for a weight loss surgery? Check these guidelines!Do weight loss pills actually work?

Childhood obesity

Children too aren't spared these days and many are tuning obese right from a young age. The confines of the city which do not have enough open spaces for them to indulge in recreational activities leaves them no option but to be at home and play on the mobile or laptop. But it can cause serious harm to their health:

Get inspired

While everything may seem bleak when you are obese, there is no need to lose hope. Look around and take inspiration. Here are some stories:

Five easy tips to lose weight by an ex-obese!

Five easy tips to lose weight by an ex-obese!

I have been obese for the better part of the last two decades. Fatness was a part of my personality, it defined who I was. It didn't matter how smart, intelligent or funny I was, being fat overshadowed all those qualities. Then things got worse when I took a tumble down a hole, alas instead of Alice's Wonderland, I received a butterfly fracture in my right ankle which left me bed-ridden for six months and with a souvenir metal plate to support my ankle.

 The doctors told me that it was the fracture was exacerbated by my excess weight but even that didn't change my view on obesity. My general sense of rebellion allowed me to view my girth as sign of well-being and felt the world in general had no say it. It didn't occur to me that being fat was making me prone to heart diseases, high cholesterol and diabetes.

But then fate played a card and my father (an equally obstinate man), forced me to join a gym. I hated it in the beginning but after a few sessions, it started to feel really good. I was dropping kilos like hot bricks! In nine months, I lost almost 40 kg and that's when I decided to become a health and fitness journalist because losing weight is extremely simple and I felt the need to share that with the world. So here are five simple tips that will help you lose weight:

Tip 1: Accept your problem

It's not just about looking good, obesity will kill you. It will give you heart disease, type 2 diabetes or joint problems. If you're a guy, the excess cholesterol build-up will give you erectile dysfunction and is also likely to increase infertility in both sexes. That's not how we were meant to live our lives. So stop listening to what others say about obesity and accept you've a problem. And obesity is not a sign of prosperity; it just means you are a glutton.

Tip 2: Stop believing in fad diets

I lost 40 kg in 9 months and I did it without any crash dieting. I didn't take weight loss pills, nor did I follow a fad diet. All I did was exercise and eat healthy. There are thousands of crash diets out there which will help you lose say 5-10 kg in a week but then the weight will come back when you stop following that diet.  I've seen scores of people who lose a lot of weight but then gain it all back once they stop dieting. (Read: )

Tip 3: Up the ante gradually

I was extremely lucky to have a trainer who knew that you can't push fat people too much or you'll end up disheartening them. When I went to the gym, my trainer Anil Bailu (a former Mr Maharashtra) started me off slow, not making me do more exercise than my body could handle. Every week, I would do weight training thrice a week and cardio for six days. In the beginning, that would only consist of 15-20 minutes sessions of mild walking, because he knew that my obese body couldn't take more. Gradually, as I lost weight, he upped the ante, increased the cardio time and I started lifting heavier weights as well. So don't overdo it and have patience, the results will come.

Tip 4: Weight loss products don't work

If it sounds too good to be true, it is. Simply put, all weight loss products are shams. Most weight loss pills are caffeine-loaded pills which just allow you to exercise longer. Some of them make you really edgy and angry as well. And some of them like DNP are downright dangerous and can be fatal. (Read: ) 

The sauna belts and meal replacement shakes too are useless, they just do not work. They are just shams to scam vulnerable people, like penis enlargement pills. The only way to lose weight is to eat a healthy diet and exercise. There are no two ways about it.

Tip 5: Believe

The most important thing I can tell you is believe in yourself. You are obese because you've eating unhealthy for years. In the same way, you can lose weight by making the right choices. There might be some genetic predisposition that still doesn't inhibit your ability to control your own actions.

If I could do it with a metal plate in my leg so can you. So stop complaining, get off your butt and just eat right (you will get plenty of ideas on our healthy recipes section) and exercise. It's that simple. (Read: )

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Friday, October 25, 2013

Beat hair problems with these home-made egg hair packs

Beat hair problems with these home-made egg hair packs

Don't just use eggs to make omelettes for breakfast. They can very well come in handy as a beauty product for your hair. Rich in protein, vitamins, essential fatty acids and antioxidants, these can repair various hair problems and give you silky and shiny locks.

The various components in eggs can combat problems like dry and brittle hair, hair loss, dry, flaky scalp, dandruff and also condition your hair. The essential fatty acids provide nourishment to the hair follicles. The xanthophylls or the antioxidants, which bring about the rich yellow colour, increase the oxygen supply in the scalp and help mend rough and easily breakable hair. The cholesterol helps in penetration and absorption of these vital components thus increasing the efficacy. 

Here are some home-made hair packs using eggs you can try:

To initiate hair growth

Take the white of one egg and mix in a teaspoon of olive oil. Beat to give a paste-like consistency and apply to the entire scalp and hair. Keep it on for about 15 to 20 minutes and then rinse with cool water and a mild shampoo. (Read: )

For silky hair

Take one cup of yoghurt you can change the quantity according to the length of your tresses) and add an egg yolk to it. Mix it well and apply to on your hair. Keep it for at least 20 minutes and then wash it with cold water which will help get rid of the smell.  

For well-conditioned hair

Pour egg yolk in a bowl and add one tablespoon of olive oil. Whisk this mixture until it is completely blended. Now, add lukewarm water to dilute this mixture. After hair wash, apply this conditioner against the length of the hair and on the bottom. Leave it on for some time and the wash it off. (Read: )

To repair damaged hair

Take one egg yolk in a bowl. Add a tablespoon of honey, one tablespoon of yogurt and half a teaspoon of coconut oil or almond oil. Mix this well and apply it on your hair. Let this stay for two hours and then wash it off.

Make sure you wash off these hair packs with lukewarm water. This is because eggs contain proteins which will coagulate on application of heat. Hence hot water will make it difficult to remove it from your locks.

If home-made packs are not your thing and take up too much of your time, you can opt for ready-to-use products in the market. Some brands which offer egg based products are:

Dabur Vatika egg protein shampooSunsilk Dream Soft & Smooth shampooEyova natural egg yolk oil

Disclaimer:  doesn't endorse any of the products mentioned and will take no responsibility for their efficacy. 

With inputs from Vidya Kinare

Cervical spondylosis: Expert tips to deal with pain in the neck

Cervical spondylosis: Expert tips to deal with pain in the neck

Spending hours bent over a computer or laptop or carrying heavy handbags can often have us reaching for the back of our neck, massaging it for some form of pain relief. But when does this bearable pain go from an irritant to being an indicator of a serious condition? Well, we have the answers for you. Dr, senior consultant, Orthopaedics at Apollo Hospital tells us about cervical spondylosis and how one can prevent and treat the condition.

What is cervical spondylosis? 

Cervical spondylosis is another name for osteoarthritis in the joints of the vertebrae in the neck. This means that it is a degenerative disease where bony surfaces, in this case in the cervical vertebrae, have lost their cartilage lining. If there is inflammation of the joint associated with this degeneration, one would use the term, spondylitis to describe it.

In spondylosis, apart from the changes described in the bony vertebrae, one will similarly encounter corresponding changes in the cushion like structures—the discs–that lie between successive vertebrae. Just as a degenerated joint alone will produce some symptoms of its own, a degenerated will be responsible for some, possibly different, complaints too.

The word, cervical, pronounced, serve-i-cull, comes from Latin, and is the adjective derived from the noun, cervix, meaning neck. It takes its root from the Latin word for horn. Ergo, cervical, by itself, is not the name of any disease. Anything related to the neck can be called cervical, as in, a cervical collar, or cervical lymph glands, or for that matter, a cervical cancer in the uterus (for that part of the uterus is called the cervix), and so on. I often get patients who complain to me of a cervical. The word cervical alone conveys no sense.

Spondulos is the Greek name for a vertebra, and –itis after the name of an organ is used in the language of Medicine to describe inflammation anywhere in the body. The suffix –osis is a more recent addition, and is used to differentiate between a degenerated spinal joint that is inflamed and one that isn't. I don't know of its origin.

Two successive vertebrae in the spinal column are joined together at the vertebral bodies as well at the vertebral arches. Degeneration in the smaller joints between the arches is traditionally called osteoarthritis while the terms, spondylosis and spondylitis are restricted to the description of degeneration in the joints between the bodies.

Who can suffer from it? What predisposes people to this condition?

We will all, at some point, end up losing cartilage from our bones, so it's not wrong to say that spondylotic changes will be seen on x-ray in anyone who is around 50 years of age. Changes are seen earlier and to a greater degree in those whose joints have been subjected to strain more than usual. Strain could be owing to excessive body weight, the spinal column being a weight-bearing structure, poor muscle tone or bad posture, and there is, of course, a genetic predisposition to this disease. Arthritis tends to run in families.

How is it diagnosed? 

An x-ray of the Cervical Spine is usually enough to confirm the diagnosis of spondylosis/spondylitis, if suspected. When the patient presents to him, the doctor will take a detailed history and conduct a thorough clinical examination, and will, once in a while, order more tests like an MRI to look for the effects of the spondylosis in structures that don't show up on x-ray, and to correlate the changes and effects with the patient's symptoms.

Pain in the neck is the commonest symptom in spondylosis, but it would be incorrect to label every patient with neck pain as a spondylotic. By definition, the disease is called spondylosis only when there are degenerative changes seen on x-ray. Very often, doctors, since there is no suitable term available to them to use, will call a neck pain without degeneration, a Cervicalgia, to show off their (otherwise non-existent) knowledge of the classical languages, where the suffix, –algia comes from the Greek word, algos, meaning pain. If a young subject who, say, works on the computer for 8-10 hours a day starts experiencing a persistent pain in the neck, they should take it as a warning sign that spondylosis is on its way and start taking remedial measures.

What are the treatment options for these patients?

Reduction of pain and restoration of function are the main objectives of treatment. To reduce the pain of inflammation anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) are prescribed for brief spells. These medicines should never be taken without supervision.

Physiotherapy and exercises remains the mainstay of treatment. Physiotherapy is safe and reduces inflammation and pain; exercises keep your joints moving.

An operation can be considered to remove an offending disc, in part, or in whole, if it is compressing a nerve or the spinal cord, and where conservative treatment has not provided relief. The operation is now performed through a small, minimally invasive, incision, and with the use of an operative microscope, so that the structures appear magnified, and so that there is less chance of tissue damage. If a whole disc is removed, the two vertebrae, above and below it, are fused together.

Disc replacement is a relatively new operation where the degenerated and compressed disc is removed, and replaced by an artificial one. The new disc will have more elasticity and, it is claimed, will allow a greater range of movement.

What are the techniques to live with the condition?

Treatments aside, what one needs to really focus on is the changes in the lifestyle one needs to make in order to live a full life with arthritis. .  

How can one prevent/slow the onset of the condition?

The onset of osteoarthritis can be slowed down with

Weight lossExercises specific to the joint is question so that the transmission of weight through it is more balancedIntake of a balanced diet, in terms of the calorific and protein intake, and one which provides anti-oxidants (vitamins and minerals) in sufficient quantity. I recommend fish, fresh fruits and milk/yoghurt to one and all.Ensuring that the joints (in the neck in this case) are not subjected to persistent and repetitive strain and stress, which means that one should take frequent breaks, and perhaps stretch a little, while one is t workThere are some medicines which will make the cartilage lining stronger, and if the treating doctor deems fit, they can be tried, in addition. Such medicines are of no help in advanced disease when there is no cartilage left to strengthen. And hope for the best!

Know your sex position: On the lap

Know your sex position: On the lap

How many different sex positions have you tried? 'One, two or five?' That's like having eaten only five different dishes all your life! No wonder people in relationships claim sex gets boring after a while. To keep things interesting and help spice up your sex life-  is going to try and bring out a list of every sex position known to humankind. Join us as we travel down the path of sexual evolution:

How to do it?

To do this extremely intimate and pleasurable sex position, the man must be sitting on the edge of a bed or a chair. Once, he is comfortable and under the spell of seduction- the woman has to sit on his lap facing him and with her legs on either side of his body. Then, after inserting his penis into her vagina, the woman can take control of the situation and experience deep penetration.

Pros

This position, like the anvil, is good for hitting the G-spot. Also, it allows for greater intimacy, as there is eye contact and both partners can kiss and cuddle along with having sex.

Cons

If the woman is heavier as compared to the man, this sex position might be a little uncomfortable. 

13 causes of nausea and vomiting you should know about

13 causes of nausea and vomiting you should know about

Nausea is the feeling of sickness in the stomach characterized by an urge to vomit and it may be accompanied by other symptoms such as flushing, excessive salivation, sweating and rapid heartbeat. Vomiting on the other hand is the ejecting of the contents of the stomach via the mouth in response to contractions of the abdominal muscles. Nausea and vomiting help protect the body by preventing the absorption of toxins in the food canal.

Nausea and vomiting are often considered minor and acceptable complications. Acute symptoms generally occur as a side effect of medication, or infection, or inflammation. Most infections go away by themselves and need minimal intervention. Stopping / changing the medication can resolve the issue of medication causing nausea. But chronic nausea and vomiting can often be debilitating and occur in response to a variety of conditions – gastrointestinal problems, central nervous system or neurologic problems, metabolic abnormalities, and endocrinologic cause. 

Cause # 1: Stress, fear and anxiety

Symptoms: Stress, fear, and anxiety can cause the body to function abnormally resulting in a number of stomach and intestinal distresses including nausea, vomiting, bloating, diarrhea, constipation, and even Irritable Bowel Syndrome. Stress and fear cause extra adrenaline to be released in the body causing an imbalance in your digestive system.

What you can do about it: Nausea due to a fearful situation is temporary and you don't have much to do about it as it goes away once the situation is resolved. Try to relax. Stress and anxiety, on the other hand, are more chronic and you need to address the underlying causes of the same to get rid of the symptoms. It is better to get professional help for your stress and anxiety. Your doctor may prescribe some antibiotics to ease nausea and vomiting. 

Cause # 2: Overeating and eating disorders

Why: Overeating causes nausea because your digestive system fails to process the food properly. It is very common in people who have a weak digestive system or those who have had surgery that reduces the functional capacity of the digestive system. 

What you can do about it: Starchy but not greasy food normalizes the rhythm of gastric contractions and helps lower nausea. If overeating is the cause, try aromatherapy with essential oils of lemon, mandarin, (any citrus scent for that matter), lavender, or mint. Try chewing on peppermint to relieve nausea.

Cause # 3: Food poisoning

Symptoms: Food poisoning occurs when the food you eat is infected by bacteria. Examples of such are Campylobacter, Salmonella, Shigella, E. coli, Listeria, etc. Common symptoms of food poisoning are fever, abdominal pain, diarrhoea, uneasiness, nausea and vomiting.

What you can do about it: Since food poisoning causes severe dehydration, it is very important that you keep yourself well hydrated with fluids and electrolytes. Avoid fatty foods, dairy products, caffeine, and alcohol. Consult a doctor as soon as possible. Your doctor may give you antibiotics to control food poisoning. Get plenty of rest.

Cause # 4: Hangover

Symptoms: If you have consumed too much alcohol you may get a hangover and experience a headache along with nausea.

What you can do about it: Simple. Drink within limits. But if you do feel nausea, try washing your stomach by adding to 1 tablespoon of soda per litre of water at room temperature. Drink 1 to 2 litres of that water and induce vomiting.

Cause # 5: Food allergy or food intolerance

Why: Nausea and vomiting can directly be triggered by food, especially in people suffering from food allergy or food intolerances. Sometimes, food is not the primary cause but a change in diet or dietetic manipulations may cause nausea and vomiting.

What you can do about it: This can normally be corrected by proper management of diet and excluding the foods that cause allergy.

Cause # 6: Pregnancy

Why: The most common endocrinologic cause of nausea is pregnancy. Also known as morning sickness, it is very common in early pregnancy. Nausea and, sometimes, vomiting usually begin before most women are 9 weeks pregnant and clear up between 12 to 14 weeks of pregnancy. It can occur at any time of the day or night and some women feel nauseated all day long. Although the cause of nausea and vomiting of pregnancy is not known, there is strong evidence that estrogens have something to do with it. Many studies have shown that severity of nausea and vomiting of pregnancy is linked to the hormonal changes in pregnancy. Lack of vitamin B6 can also cause nausea in pregnant women.

What you can do about it:

Avoid foods and smells that trigger your nausea.Eat small portions frequently throughout the day so that your stomach is never empty.Consume fluids such especially cold beverages in between the meals.

Cause # 7: Medication

Why: Pain medicines, such as opioids like codeine, hydrocodone, morphine, or oxycodone, can cause nausea or vomiting. OTC medicines such as iron or potassium products, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory medicines, and even aspirin can cause nausea by irritating your stomach or slowing down intestinal movement and causing bloating.

What you can do about it: Know that nausea caused by medications is not allergic reaction. Normally, nausea goes off within a week or so. But you can prevent nausea by taking your medicine with a meal or small amount of food. You can also take your medicine with 1 to 2 tablespoons of antacid to help coat your stomach.

Cause # 9: Migraine 

Why: Any condition that increases pressure inside the skull thus affecting the cerebro-spinal fluid can result in nausea and vomiting.  Migraine is a painful headache preceded by intense throbbing or a pulsing sensation in one area of the head and is commonly accompanied by nausea, vomiting, and extreme sensitivity to light and sound. A migraine headache causes the artery located at the base of the skull (temporal artery) to enlarge thereby releasing chemicals responsible for inflammation. Again, during the headache the autonomous nervous system too responds with feelings of nausea, diarrhea, and vomiting.

What you can do about it: Get fresh air by going out or opening the window and take deep breaths. Loosen your clothes. This might help with nausea. Stay hydrated but don't drink too much water at once. Ask your doctor for anti-nausea medicines. (Read: )

Cause # 10: Viral gastroenteritis

Symptoms: Commonly known as stomach flu, viral gastroenteritis is an intestinal infection marked by watery diarrhoea, abdominal cramps, nausea or vomiting, and sometimes fever. Recovery is usually without complications except in cases of infants, older adults and people with compromised immune systems where the condition can prove deadly.

What you can do about it: Take care not to get dehydrated. Drink lots of fluids to replace fluids and electrolytes lost through vomiting and diarrhoea.  Avoid eating fatty and sugary foods because they could make your symptoms worse. (Read: )

Cause # 11: Inflammation of gall bladder (gall stones) and pancreas  

Symptoms: Nausea and vomiting can occur as a result of inflammation of these organs. There is also pain in the upper abdomen in case of pancreatitis and pain in the upper right abdomen in case of gall stones that is severe and constant and it may last for days. People with diabetes are at particular risk for serious complications. Incidentally, one of the main symptoms of appendicitis is also nausea and vomiting.

What you can do about it: There is not much you can do about it. Seek medical attention.

Cause # 12: Gastroparesis

Why: This is a condition in which the stomach muscles don't function properly because of the related nerve damage and so it prevents the stomach from emptying properly. Disorders such as dyspepsia, gastro-esophageal reflux disease (GERD), peptic ulcer disease, or irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) may also cause nausea and vomiting, but these are rarely the primary symptoms.

What you can do about it: There is no cure for gastroparesis but anti-emetic medications such as prochlorperazine, diphenhydramine and lorazepam may help relieve nausea symptoms.

Cause # 13: Chemotherapy and cancer

Symptoms: Most often used to treat cancer, chemotherapy has the side effect of nausea and in many cases, vomiting. However, it depends on the drugs used and whether radiation is also used for treatment. Risk factors are being of female gender, age (50 years or more), alcoholism, high level of anxiety, and whether one is prone to vomiting when sick.

Certain cancers such as liver cancer and malignant brain tumors in themselves can cause nausea and vomiting although these symptoms are not evident in the early stages of cancer. Losing weight without trying, loss of appetite abdominal swelling are other symptoms that are associated with liver cancer. Nausea or vomiting that is most severe in the morning, gradual loss of movement or sensation in an arm or leg, unsteadiness or imbalance, confusion and disorientation, and memory loss are some of the symptoms of brain tumor. (Read: )

What you can do about it: Nausea and vomiting can be controlled with preventive medication. Your doctor will prescribe medication for nausea and vomiting.

This list is by no means exhaustive, as there are many other causes of nausea and vomiting, for example, vertigo, motion sickness, appendicitis and other conditions. The most sinister of them is when even the physicians cannot determine the cause of your nausea and vomiting. For example, few years ago in USA, a 30-year old woman in the USA had repeated nausea and non-projectile (not forceful, more like a spit) vomiting and a diffuse abdominal pain for 3 weeks. Her physical examination showed bilateral end-gaze nystagmus (fast, uncontrollable movements of the eyes). Other than that, there were no abnormalities. This goes to show that sometimes, even physicians find it hard to determine the cause of nausea and vomiting. It is, therefore, important not to ignore nausea and to consult a physician in case of severe or intermittent nausea and vomiting. 

Thursday, October 24, 2013

I have irregular periods and unbearable menstrual cramps every time. What should I do?

I have irregular periods and unbearable menstrual cramps every time. What should I do?

I'm a 14-year-old girl and I have had my period for about a year-and-a-half now. It has always been regular — coming every 29 days, very light with no cramps, lasting for only 3 or 4 days. But since the past 5 or 6 months, my period has been extremely irregular. I have no idea when to expect it. Sometimes, it's every 2 weeks. Also, it has been lasting for 6-8 days and the cramps seem unbearable. I'm still new to the whole thing. Should I go see a doctor? I'm really worried.

Answered by Dr Sadhna Singhal

During the first two years of menarche (onset of menstrual cycles), 50% of the menstrual cycles can be anovulatories wherein no ovulation take place. You may now have entered the ovulation phase which is generally accompanied by pain and cramps. So, do not worry about the pain, it's just a normal phenomenon. However, as you are having irregular periods, just to be on the safer side, get an ultrasound of the lower abdomen done to rule out your chances of diseases like PCOD, etc.

tip:

In order to relieve menstrual pain, follow these tips.

Include a glass of milk in your breakfast. Calcium is a good cure for cramps. If you are not such a 'milk' person or are lactose intolerant about 600mg (2-4 tablets) of calcium chewables should do the trick.Indulge in generous helpings of papaya during and before your periods. Papaya contains 'papain' an enzyme that helps to regulate and helps to ease the flow during menstruation.Carrots are not only good for your eyes; they also assist in regulating menstruation. A tall glass of carrot juice can go a long way in making you feel much better.Aloe Vera juice with honey is also well known to ease the flow and reducing the pain.Avoid red meat and caffeine. They have properties that exacerbate the pain.

For more tips, .

Dr Sadhna Singhal is a senior consultant of obstetrics and gynaecology at Sri Balaji Action Medical Institute. She has special training in endoscopic (laparoscopic) surgeries and has performed various high-risk gynaecological and obstetrical operations. She has also conducted many major laparoscopic, hysteroscopic surgeries including laparoscopically assisted vaginal hysterectomies and total laparoscopic hysterectomies. Dr Sadhna is a member of the Association of Obstetricians & Gynaecologists of Delhi (AOGD), Indian Medical Association and Delhi Medical Association and National Association for Reproductive and Child Health of India (NARCHI).

  

The omega-3 controversy – can it cause cancer?

The omega-3 controversy – can it cause cancer?

Recently, a study was published in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute linking omega-3 fatty acids to a high risk of prostate cancer. Omega-3 fatty acids are usually found in fish, flaxseeds, etc and are considered good for health especially the heart as they lower cholesterol levels. They are generally recommended by doctors and dieticians as part of a healthy and well-balanced meal. But according to the trial conducted by these researchers, those who had higher concentrations of omega-3 in their blood were 46% more likely to get prostate cancer than the others. We asked nutritionist  neha about the possibilities of such a health risk and how much omega-3 do we really need in our diet. 

Do you think omega-3 fatty acids can lead to serious ailments like cancer?

I wouldn't completely agree with the study as it has many shortcomings. It does not consider the source of omega-3 whether it is coming from pills or diet, does not take into account the subject's health status before the study. Cancer is a result of various factors like smoking, nutrition, exercise, environmental toxicity, stress and none of these things were taken into account. So, it is very irrational to conclude that omega-3 increases the risk of prostate cancer. In fact, populations with the largest intake of omega-3 (from fish) such as the Japanese, Eskimo and the Inuit of Greenland have some of the lowest rates of prostate cancer. There are also a couple of studies which have proven that eating fish regularly reduces the risk of prostate cancer. (Read: )

Why do we need omega-3? 

Omega-3 is an essential fatty acid which is not manufactured by the body. But it is needed by one and all as it has great health benefits like:

Reducing triglyceride

Decreasing blood pressure

Improving brain communication and memory

Controlling hormone production

Reducing inflammation

Improving skin appearance

Supporting proper vision

Protecting against cancer

What are the best sources of omega-3?

The best source of omega-3 is fish and vegetarian sources are flaxseeds and walnuts.

How much of omega-3 do we really need?

A healthy individual without any heart or health issues can eat fish 2-3 times/week or take 500 mg of EPA + DHA through fish oil supplements/day i.e. 2 capsules of 1000 mg/day. Someone with a heart problem can have 2-4 capsules daily after consulting their doctor. (Read: 

Can too much of omega-3 be harmful?

Avoid taking excessive omega-3 through supplements (more than 4 capsules/day) as it can increase the risk of bleeding, can cause gas, bloating, diarrhoea. Diabetics should take fish oil capsules under a doctor's supervision as they may experience a rise in blood sugar levels after taking them.

Is it best to get one's intake from natural sources instead of capsules?

Natural sources are always the best. Get it from your diet such as eating fish 3 times/week or having 2-4 tablespoons of flaxseeds daily.  But if you cannot then opt for fish oil supplements. There are various genuine brands available these days in the market that sell fish oil capsules. (Read: )

Bio-resorbable Vascular Scaffold – a new technology to dissolve heartache

Bio-resorbable Vascular Scaffold – a new technology to dissolve heartache

Mangalore – a coastal city that was fast establishing itself on the world medical tourism map has blazed yet another trail, when its doctors announced that they are able to implant Bio-resorbable Vascular Scaffold (BVS), which is a state-of-the-art procedure to open clogged arteries in the heart.

BVS is a device designed to restore blood flow by opening a clogged vessel and providing support while it heals. Once the vessel can remain open without the extra support, the bio-resorbable scaffold is designed to be slowly metabolised and eventually dissolves into carbon dioxide and water in the body. (Read:)

The first BVS was successfully implanted in Mangalore at the AJ Hospital and Research Centre, Mangalore. 

'Treatments for coronary artery disease have come a long way from the days of balloon angioplasties and metal stents. However, a dissolving stent like BVS leaves no foreign body inside the human body, as the clogged artery can be enlarged and supported effectively, without the stent leaving any fragments behind in the blood stream.' explained Dr BV Manjunath, interventional cardiologist, AJ Hospital and Research Centre.

'The device is made of polylactide, a proven biocompatible material that is commonly used in medical implants, such as dissolving sutures. Since a permanent implant is not left behind, a vessel treated with a BVS ultimately may have the ability to move, flex and pulsate similar to an untreated vessel,' interventional cardiologist, Dr R Purushotham added. (Read: )

What's at stake

Cardiovascular disease remains the leading cause of death globally and by 2030, almost 2.36 crore people will die from cardiovascular disease every year. The largest increase in number of deaths will occur in the South-East Asia region.

But what is BVS?

BVS is a first-of-its-kind device for the treatment of coronary artery disease (CAD). It works by restoring blood flow to the heart similar to a metallic stent, but then dissolves into the body, leaving behind a treated vessel that may resume more natural function and movement, because it is free of a permanent metallic stent. The vessel may expand and contract as needed to increase the flow of blood to the heart in response to normal activities such as exercising. Thus, treatment and diagnostic options are broadened, the need for long-term treatment with anti-clotting medications may be reduced and future interventions would be unobstructed by a permanent implant.

Is body massage really needed?

Is body massage really needed?

Body massages are meant to relax one's body, relieve stress and rejuvenate their system both mentally and physically. A lot has been said about body massages – while its loyalists will swear by its numerous benefits, there are a huge number of people who believe it does no good and is simply a waste of money and time. We speak to celebrity fitness trainer  who has trained clients like Jessica Alba and Halle Berry, and to Karl Irani, owner of Palms Spa in Mumbai on the importance and benefits of a body massage and if it is really required.

According to Ramona, body massages are an important part of a fitness programme especially when training with resistance. They have physiological benefits and are a great way to treat yourself after hard workouts. According to a recent study by researchers at McMaster University, deep massage after an intense workout caused muscles to enlarge and grow new mitochondria – the powerhouse of our cells, responsible for converting nutrients into useful energy.

She recommends scheduling your massage according to your workout plan. 'Ideally, if you train for 5 days a week, a massage a week would be best, if you train 4 days a week, I would say get a massage every 2 weeks and if you train 3 days a week, a monthly session will suffice, ' says Ramona.

In between professional massages with a therapist, you can also give yourself a self massage with some oil or using tools such as foam rollers or acupressure balls.

Health benefits of a massage:

Increases blood flow to muscle and tissue

Promotes warmth in the tissue

Decreases stiffness and soreness

Relaxation

Stimulates the body's lymphatic system

Improves blood circulation

Reduces minor pain and fatigue

Types of massages:

Karl who owns a spa, lists out the various kinds of body massages.

Ayurvedic massage: This is an ancient Indian massage which uses herbal oils and products for the massage and is performed by either one or two masseuses. It can further be classified into various types like Shirodhara,Udwarthanam, etc which target specific body parts. It is believed that an Ayurvedic massage can go a long way in treating chronic ailments like frozen shoulder, arthritis, slipped disc, etc. It uses traditional massage strokes to detoxify and strengthen the body focussing on the pressure points.

Thai massage: This type involves a series of yoga-inspired stretches to relieve muscle and joint tension and stimulate circulation. It increases flexibility and improves overall energy levels as well.

Balinese massage: This is a blend of acupressure, reflexology, aromatherapy, stretching and deep tissue massage. It provides deep relaxation, relieves joint pain and also improves blood circulation.

Herbal detox massage: It incorporates ancient Indian and Thai healing remedies to treat spasms and deep muscle aches. It uses steamed herbal compress which relieves the body of its toxins, stimulates circulation and increases flow of energy.

Sports massage: This is a deep tissue massage especially to relax tense body parts like a stiff neck, lower back tightness, sore shoulders, etc. the pressure is deeper than other massages and the movements are also slower. It focuses on relieving stiffness and treating deep knots.

Reflexology foot massage: This is based on the principle that every area of the body is linked to a corresponding zone in the feet. It is a combination of pressure on specific points and gentle massage to enhance circulation and detoxify and de-stress the complete body. (Read: )

Says Karl, 'Though there are no hard and fast rules to choose a specific massage, it is best to consult a therapist who can guide you which one will be the best one for you according to your body and the areas which need for relaxation. You can obviously experiment to see what suits you but know the kind of massage you are going for beforehand. For example, a person who doesn't like too much pressure shouldn't opt for a deep tissue massage or a person who doesn't like stretching should not go for a Thai one.'

A word of caution:

Even though massages are good for the body, there are certain situations when they should be avoided unless prescribed by your doctor. These include:

Inflammation

Fever

Pregnancy

High BP

Hernia

Fracture

Though a very gentle massage surrounding the area may be fine, it is best to consult your doctor and massage therapist before you opt for one. (Read: )

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