Sex during pregnancy: Should we, shouldn’t we?

Sex during pregnancy: Should we, shouldn't we?

by Editorial Team

Thinking of abstaining from sex just because you are pregnant? No need, say experts. In order to answer common queries that come to most pregnant couples' mind, we speak to Sonali Shivlani, an internationally certified pregnancy counsellor and Dr Zinal Unadkat, a leading paediatrician, on this topic.

Till what stage of pregnancy can a couple have sex?

Generally, the recommendation is abstinence in the first trimester and then again in the last four weeks of pregnancy. But I would ideally suggest first checking with the doctor as each pregnancy is different and a medical check is important to determine what is safe. A woman who has a recurring abortion history or premature delivery is advised against having sex during pregnancy. 

What can go wrong if they indulge in intercourse during these stages?

In the first trimester, the placenta implants and all foetal organs are developed. Excessive jerks or jostling could pose a risk to the pregnancy. It can also lead to a miscarriage.

In the last one month, if sex is unprotected then it can lead to infection probabilities especially if the water bag breaks. There is also a risk of premature labour. (Read: The most comprehensive guide to first trimester dos and don'ts you'll ever need!) 

Can sex cause any harm to the baby?

The baby is safe within the amniotic fluid covered by membranes so there isn't any risk to it but too much movement and jerk can cause pain to the mother.

Are there any precautions that couples need to keep in mind?

Avoid any weight on the abdomen and avoid excessive acrobats. Stick to traditional positions. You may want to use a lubricant as the woman might be experiencing vaginal dryness and itching due to hormonal changes. (Read: Try lubricants to give your woman that orgasm she deserves!)

Which are the safe sex positions couples can opt for?

Some safe sex positions are woman on top, doggy style and even man on top but with not much weight on the woman's abdomen – if there is any discomfort during this, the couple should avoid it. Cuddling and foreplay can be just as satisfying – it is important to be emotionally connected to be able to welcome the newborn with love in this world. (Read: Top sex positions: Rear Entry or Doggy Style)

Is not having intercourse throughout the nine months of pregnancy a better option?

Not really! There is no reason why a couple cannot satisfy their desires. At times, due to hormonal changes, women experience a peak in their libido during pregnancy. In some cases when a pregnancy crosses term, sex is advised to help soften the cervix as sperm has the ability to do so. Also, nipple stimulation can cause uterine contractions. Sex is considered a fun way to induce labour. However, it is advised to consult your doctor before you try this. 

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